Qobolwakhe Sikhonjwa, the 12-year-old son of the late Babongile Sikhonjwa, has shared a deeply emotional and heartfelt farewell message to his father. In his tribute, Qobolwakhe calls his father his best friend and everything to him, expressing profound grief and love after his loss.
He reflects on the pain of losing his dad, saying, “He was my best friend, my everything. And yeah, him dying, leaving me here, it’s a real shame. Too many memories to continue, but I’ll always have memories I will never forget. Everywhere I go, I’ll remember, ‘Hey, my dad was here. He did this.’ He always made me laugh—always, always.”
Qobolwakhe promises to carry on his father’s legacy, vowing, “I’ll do my best to take over his legacy and not leave people sad. I’ll do my best forever.” He candidly speaks about the shock and struggle of accepting his father’s death, admitting he hoped his dad would wake up but has now come to terms with the reality.
“It’s been a real struggle for us, the whole family,” he says, describing the deep grief felt especially by his mother, grandpa, and aunt. Despite the sorrow, he finds comfort in the joyful memories his father gave him, recalling moments when Babongile cheered him up during tough times: “I remember a time when I was sad after not getting a position in Gongju. My dad went on stage and gave a funny speech that had everyone laughing. That’s who he was—always making people smile.”
He also shares a playful memory of their video game sessions, where they alternated wins, highlighting the bond they shared through simple joys.
Qobolwakhe closes with an eternal declaration of love for his father: “No matter what happens, not even death can stop me from loving you. You’re the best dad I could ever ask for. Thank you for everything you’ve done for me. I love you, Dad.”
This poignant message honors Babongile Sikhonjwa’s memory while revealing the deep heartbreak and enduring love his son carries with him. It is a touching testament to a father’s impact and the powerful bonds that remain beyond loss.
