Zimbabwean socialite and entrepreneur, Olinda Chapel Nkomo has took to social media to heavily criticise Shadaya who is popularly known for bad mouthing women.

 

Below is a post by Olinda Chapel Nkomo:

He has deep mental health issues that need a professional to fix. You are all smiling at a very deeply hurt little boy. 

 

So every time he posts something nasty about women, just know on that particular day he is feeling very hurt and the only way he can fix himself is by attacking women. It’s nothing to do with being cool at a Twitter trend. Those are signs that he is triggered and he feels very vulnerable. HURT PEOPLE – HURT PEOPLE ! 

 

Misogyny is typically an unconscious hatred that men form early in life, often as a result of a trauma involving a female figure they trusted.

A misogynist can be extremely competitive with women, likes to control them sexually, and may suddenly leave the relationship without ending it.

When a misogynist puts a woman down, the bad behavior is rewarded with a dose of the pleasure chemical dopamine, making them want to repeat it. An abusive or negligent mother, sister, teacher, or girlfriend can plant a seed deep down in their brain’s subcortical matter. Women haters (unconsciously) get off on treating women badly. Every time they can put down a woman or hurt her feelings, they unconsciously feel good because deep down in their hidden brain, their bad behavior is rewarded with a dose of the pleasure chemical dopamine—which makes them want to repeat the behavior again and again.

 

Every time he puts up one of his posts. Instead of kumutuka. Tell him you love him. Tell him as a community we are here for him. Send him virtual hugs. The more we attack him, the more we confirming that women are bad in head and he justifies his actions. 

 

ALL HE NEEDS IS LOVE.